The Art of the "Per My Last Email"
By PolitePost Team
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4 min read
It is the office equivalent of screaming. When someone writes "Per my last email," what they are actually saying is: "Can you read? I already answered this."
While it feels satisfying to type, it rarely gets the result you want. It puts the recipient on the defensive. Defensive people don't help you; they fight you.
The Translation Layer
Let's look at what you want to say vs. what you should say.
Your Inner thought
"I literally just told you this yesterday. Are you blind?"
The Diplomatic Fix
"Re-attaching the document from yesterday for easier reference. Please see page 3."
3 Alternatives to "Per my last email"
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1The "Quick Refresh": "To recap our discussion on Tuesday..." (This assumes they forgot, rather than ignored you).
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2The "Confusion Blame": "Apologies if my previous note was unclear. To clarify..." (Takes the blame to lower tension).
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3The "Solution Forward": "As mentioned below, the deadline is Friday. Can we confirm if this is still feasible?"
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